

The Perfectly Imperfect Blog
Welcome to my little corner of the internet.
Here, I share the journey of life after loss—its challenges, its quiet triumphs, and the moments of rediscovered joy. I became a widow in 2016, and since then, my path has been one of resilience, healing, and learning to embrace a new kind of normal.
Through this blog, I hope to connect with others who are navigating similar experiences. Whether you're amid grief, seeking hope, or simply looking for a space where you feel understood, you're not alone. This is a place for support, shared stories, and gentle encouragement.
From processing sorrow to finding light again, and managing the everyday in between, thank you for being here and walking this path with me. -Kelli
The Trio
ABOUT THEM
This is the first time I've ever written a post about my children only. As I've mentioned before, they are so resilient. I can't believe how well they are all doing right now. I'm beyond proud of them. I need to take notes from them because there are a lot of days that are still not that great for me. That's the funny thing about grief, it sneaks up on you when you least expect it to...
Rahmil is a high school graduate y'all!!! I am so very proud of him. I know how hard this ordeal has been on him and even though he's endured some minor setbacks, he made it. Now, we need to make some decisions about his next step.
Rahsaan, my middle kid, is going to high school. High. School. I am so NOT ready for this next chapter. I have been praying that he is. I am proud of him as well. Middle school started out rocky and rough for him. He managed to turn it around and was accepted into 2 Catholic High Schools. I am praying that he becomes the leader that I know he can be and he excels in every way possible.
Aryn Paige turned 9, and she acts like a teenager. She is going to 4th grade and I hope they are ready for her! She is still my ray of sunshine. Especially on the days I am feeling sad. I can always depend on my social butterfly to make me smile.
